I've been some fabulous teams - great because of the way that they were led as much as anything. The one thing that these team leaders did was to create the space for people over agenda. Each of these leaders began each meeting with a question that helped us know and better appreciate our peers. Anything from "Where did you go for your break?" to two truths and a lie (a fun game, look it up).

❓ What differentiates a great question? The simple answer is that great questions move something or someone forward. They deepen knowledge, they build capability.

More than anything, great questions have implicit cognitive load. They create effort, and it is this effort that creates legacy learning in the brain. The transformation seen is proportional to the amount of cognitive effort given.

🗣 There is one language pattern that is singularly responsible for all human development. Do you know what it is?
It is the humble question.

I say humble only because the power of questions is often masked by the frequency with which we use them. And because there are a bunch of poor questions that are habituated into daily life.

⚔️Difficult conversations. Crucial Conversations. Courageous Conversations. Tough Conversations. Fierce Conversations. Do you see a pattern?

Why do we place this sort of energy around conversations that matter? When we say we are about to have a 'difficult' conversation, we have already primed our brain this *will* be difficult. And it often is.

This is the place to be if you have seen this post on LinkedIn and you are desperate for the answer/resolution…